Fighting too much? Here’s the Solution
Are you tired of this? Does it seem like you and your partner are constantly fighting? Renowned marriage researcher Dr. John Gottman discovered that 69% of couple’s problems are recurring. More than… Read More
Maximize Your Dating with Feng Shui
Feng Shui for Dating When I first began dating I knew I wanted a very special someone. I wanted my heart to break open, I wanted to fall in love. I… Read More
Tuning Into Your Body For Deepend Love
How to Tune Into Your Body and Make Yourself Transparent At some point during your day, take a moment to stop what you’re doing. Close your eyes, and put your attention on… Read More
Body Conscious Listening
Perfect Communication Makes Perfect Love Everyone agrees communication is essential to a healthy relationship. And that’s certainly true, but it is a very special type of communication that makes for a fantastic love.… Read More
The Power of Words
Recognizing the Power of Words Recently I was reminded of just how powerful our words can be. Words are like incantations that we use to put others, and even ourselves, under spells. As… Read More
Four Hour Body: A Book Review
I recently won a Kindle from Tim Ferris’ online competition. In exchange for winning I promised I would write up a review of Tim Ferris’s book, “The 4 Hour Body.” Here is… Read More
We Keep Fighting Over the Same Thing. Why?
Think for a minute of any relationship, now think of the problems that you have in that relationship. Would you agree that a majority of the problems don’t have a solution? I have relationships with people who are incapable of changing their tendency to be unplanned, unclear communicators…everyone has their faults, and some of those faults they won’t be ever able to change.
If we agree that in a relationship there are many problems that can’t really be solved, then we must conclude that resolving a certain problems must take a special technique, a certain process that eventually leads to understanding, deepened love, and understanding. In one word: Harmony.
In intimate relationships perpetual problems become big problems, unless we learn how to work with this issue.
So, what’s the answer? How do we work with perpetual problems if they don’t have solutions?
How to make a complaint, and have your partner listen
For a period of 3 years I have been teaching couples how to utilize the teachings of Dr. John Gottman. As a Marriage Education Facilitator and Marriage Coach I have worked with over… Read More
Kali
I wrote this poem after my first heartbreak. It was the fire in a forest that creates space for new life to blossom. I have titled the poem after Kali, the Hindu goddess of destruction. The devastation of Heartbreak broke me open. It allowed me to open deeper into the emptiness that is Love.
“I’ve spilt ashes near your alter
those are pieces of my former self
the one who thought he suffered.
life slips through our hands
slips through the nostrils
and life breathes itself
the rest is just details
agreements we’ve imposed on
what is”
